Is the Super Working Mum (SWM) a myth? Does this woman even exist?They think we have it all figured out. Oh well, we can’t disappoint them now, can we?
As a woman, the term “super” reflects excellence but not perfection <—Click here to tweet this.
It is a journey to becoming exceptional as a woman, wife (if married) and mother, NOT settling for mediocrity along the way.
Most times, when you hear the word “super” you probably imagine a woman in a super hero cape, trying to save the whole world. Far from it, in my opinion.
A true Super Mum is one who trusts in the Super Natural power of God and not in her own abilities. She recognises that she can do nothing outside of her Source- God.
Qualities of a Super Working Mum
I thought hard and long before compiling this list. I developed it based on a combination of the qualities of the proverbs 31 woman, admirable traits I have seen in my mum and other super working women I know.
Now, let me take you through the qualities I think a super working mum should have in the different aspects of her life (in no particular order).
At Work, A Super Working Mum
- either has a job or a business or an income generating hobby
- conducts herself with professionalism
- is diligent and confident at her work place or business
- is assertive
At Home, A Super Working Mum
- is a home maker and house keeper
- gets out of bed early
- is a proactive parent
- carries her husband along in the affairs of the home
- is observant
- is gentle and patient with her family
On Lifestyle, A Super Working Mum
- reads books that edify her mentally and spiritually
- has a simplified and organised life
- has a positive attitude and is a positive influence on people around her
- is conscious of what she eats and keeps fit
- is financially savvy and can manage money well
- dresses for her body type
On Attitude, A Super Working Mum
- has a good sense of humor
- does not take herself or life to seriously
- is aware of her strengths and weakness
- enhances her strengths and puts less emphasis on her weaknesses
- is not afraid of change
- is not afraid to make mistakes but learns from them
- is strong, confident and in control of her emotions
In Relationships, A Super Working Mum
- puts God first and in the center of her life
- is spiritually, mentally, emotionally and physically mature
- puts her family first
- has a great relationship with her husband if she has one
- loves and disciplines her children
- chooses her friends wisely
- is a role model to other mums who want to be super as well; willing and available to help them
In general, She
- knows how to prioritise and is in charge of her time
- takes good care of herself- spiritually, emotional, physically, mentally
- is aware of her stress triggers and manages stress well
- is not defined by work or being a mum but is secured in her own identity
- is a great planner and result oriented
- knows when to let go
- knows she can’t do it all, asks for help and is not afraid to delegate
- does not micromanage
So that’s my personal list of Who a Super Working Mum should be. I would keep adding to this list. It is definitely NOT cast in stone or a must do list. Your list could be similar or different depending on your perspective in life.
My aim is not to achieve all of these traits in one day (that is highly unrealistic). My goal however is to take one area or similar areas, work on them and move on to the next area. I will definitely share with you how I progress in my journey.
So what other traits do you think a Super Working Mum should have? Please share with me in the comment box. Thanks
